Young, insecure male.....

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

So, a big concern is you think your penis is too small to satisfy sexually most women and you want it bigger so you think this will make you better.

Ok im not the sexgod know it all of penises

BUt, IMO if yo are 6.7x5 inches. Then with good thrustign nad techinque at that size you can satisfy quite easily 90% of all women.

If you added 0.3 inch perhaps hits g-spot or soemthing I read? So 7 is good?

GIrth 5.5 could be better but above 5.5 not necessary.

Nontheless from what I read and on my experiences a 6.7x5 penis is pretty more than adequate

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

So, a big concern is you think your penis is too small to satisfy sexually most women and you want it bigger so you think this will make you better.

Ok im not the sexgod know it all of penises

BUt, IMO if yo are 6.7x5 inches. Then with good thrustign nad techinque at that size you can satisfy quite easily 90% of all women.

If you added 0.3 inch perhaps hits g-spot or soemthing I read? So 7 is good?

GIrth 5.5 could be better but above 5.5 not necessary.

Nontheless from what I read and on my experiences a 6.7x5 penis is pretty more than adequate

I think the OP's issues go above and beyond just his penis size.

[jd10021 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close jd10021]

Has anyone thought about the picture(s) that may or may not have been taken? Would that bother other guys and is that something that has happened to a lot of women these days? (what with mobile phones, etc).

You have to be honest with yourself about what bugs you about the photos: (A) she was dumb enough to do it, (B) she did it with another guy but not with you, (C) the dude might use the photos to embarrass her, (D) the dude might use the photos to embarrass you (with his large dick), (E) something else. Whatever. She seems to have laughed it off. You should too. If your insecurity is really driving you nuts, take your own pics. Better yet, take your own picks now and every three months while you're doing your PE training.

The convenience of mobile phones, facebook, etc. have made people oblivious to the dumb things they do. Getting a drunk tattoo is sometimes less embarrassing than something that can be posted online. Unless you're a pornstar (or wannabe reality star), just don't do it. Nothing good can come of it.

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

I think the OP's issues go above and beyond just his penis size.

It does most so.

BUT dont you agree that his penis is the last thing he needs to work on. And that it is a good size. Not a moster porn cock. But from a physical point of view his penis can and should be more than adequate for most females?

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

Yes his penis is great and is more than adequate and enjoyable for majority of women.

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

Yes his penis is great and is more than adequate and enjoyable for majority of women.

Well theres one thing he can stop fretting over then.

Sure do PE all you like ust for fun and keep it a hobby and work on your other mental aspects

PS- he said

''Now, I have a statistically COMPLETELY average penis (6.7 bpel, 5.8 nbpel, 5 inches mseg''

just for the record.

with a 1inch lose in nbpel it seems to me perhaps you need to lose some weight? Low bodyfat and shaved pubes can visually make a huge difference. I guess thats why I had so many WOW comments etc...skinny guy, low bodyfat, shaved pubes, 7 inch erecion= 9-10 inches to some woman

I have just over 7 bpel on a good day and nbpel aint much differnet

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

Also I must quote


''but can't help but feeling inferior to those lucky guys with big ones (you have a big one, not huge. big). Almost like even though I can have sex with a woman, I can't give her that kind of "ultimate" sex, you know? Like that kind of sex that women go looking for when they are on the prowl and just want a totally satisfying sexual experience. Here's my question: has the best sex of your life been with a man with a big or above average penis?...(you have an above average penis)


I know that average sized men can be great in bed, but are big men a bit better? (you are big, not huge, big) I ask because I have reason to believe my girlfriend has had a few men that were very big, and me being very average, I feel very inadequate (you are not average though), like I can't quite have the same kind of "sex" with her has they did. Notice I say "sex" because I hate to call it love-making....I don't want to make love....I want to F*Ck, you know? I don't want to be the guy she settled for because I am more stable and nice and funny....I want to be the guy that makes her scream with pleasure. I can last for a long time, and she can have three orgasms (maybe fake, although they seem very real) in a row before I finish but I feel like I am excluded from being her "best" sex because of my average size. (ok so you just said Is quivalent to ''I want to be a rich man but I only have 1 billion dollars in my bank'')

I know this is macho and stupid, but I feel like less of a man, because my penis is not big enough to command any attention (maybe it dont command attention like a 10 incher but inside her its big). I.e. guys with big ones have to be careful because they can cause pain. A woman would never be intimidated by my penis (prob not big enough to be inimitading but do you want to scare her or give her good sex?), so I view it as though I am automatically less dominant and manly as the guys sporting the jumbo ones. (well you dont have a jumbo one thats true)
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Ill be honest the impression you are giving of your thoughts on penis size are similar to mine.

1. You have an above average sized penis
2. You dont have a monster cock
3. You have a big ego and big cock fetish
4. You want to impress girls just by being monsterly hung

1+2+3+4= You have a perfectly normal above average cock that can sexaully satisfy most women. However, pshcologically you would love to have a monster cock that will impress every women and leave them in awe and be amazed by your unit. You just want to be that guy with the monster cock. You want to be the biggest cock she has ever had and ever will.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

I think a lot of mens general lack of self like and lack of confidence gets directed at their penis when its really not a penis problem.
So you will find on this site that men of all penis sizes have anxiety over their cocks and how the people they are sexually attracted to view their penis. How other men view their penis. When in reality it all comes down to how they view and feel about their penis. Emotions and Intelligence can be too different things. So you can know something but still struggle with your emotions.

[joeaverage Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeaverage]

All salient points...so salient, in fact, that I can not really find a caveat.

I do have a HUGE ego. In fact, sometimes I think I have NPD. (Narcissistic Personality Disorder).

Another thing I should mention....since I was 15 I have been looking at porn everyday. I was so busy watching porn that I missed every opportunity to get laid that came my way, and there were several. I have never really liked women that much, probably because I was a late bloomer, and socially not good with them until recently. Typical really....insecure guy, doesn't know how to talk to girls, gets issues because of it, yada yada.

You know, I guess I do have a big-cock fetish. When I sleep with my girlfriend, I am more concerned with my cock size than I am with her pleasure. I also can't think about our "closeness" either. I just picture my cock going in and out of her and what it looks like and that is the only way I get off.

At first I was just using her for sex, and I felt great. But now, I feel "something", and it makes me incredibly uneasy.

I actually would trade almost everything to have a giant cock. I don't want to have a normal life, whatever that is anyway. No, were I sporting something bigger, I could live the life I want, which is to either be a porn actor, or a total stud. I know that is shallow, but it's all I really care about. This goes deeper than just cock size, I know, but sometimes you can't see the forest for the trees, as in my case.

Sex with a woman doesn't scare me. Intimacy does, because I feel vulnerable, and when I feel vulnerable I feel weak, and weakness is not manly. This girl has a way of breaking down my wall of machismo, and seeing who I really am, and it scares the shit out of me. I'm hoping that now that she's seen how insecure I am, maybe she's just pull the plug and do us both a favor.

I went to my psychologist, and he told me to STOP the porn, and I have. I have not intentionally seen porn for ten days or so, and I am not going to view it for a VERY long time, as it only hurts my pysche. I think it has really damaged me.

[joeaverage Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeaverage]

Isn't it illegal to take photos of sex without your partner's consent? Do most guys actually try to get away with that? Is a girl a tramp if she has allowed herself to be in that situation? Should I find a more wholesome girl?

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

All salient points...so salient, in fact, that I can not really find a caveat.

I do have a HUGE ego. In fact, sometimes I think I have NPD. (Narcissistic Personality Disorder).

Another thing I should mention....since I was 15 I have been looking at porn everyday. I was so busy watching porn that I missed every opportunity to get laid that came my way, and there were several. I have never really liked women that much, probably because I was a late bloomer, and socially not good with them until recently. Typical really....insecure guy, doesn't know how to talk to girls, gets issues because of it, yada yada.

You know, I guess I do have a big-cock fetish. When I sleep with my girlfriend, I am more concerned with my cock size than I am with her pleasure. I also can't think about our "closeness" either. I just picture my cock going in and out of her and what it looks like and that is the only way I get off.

At first I was just using her for sex, and I felt great. But now, I feel "something", and it makes me incredibly uneasy.

I actually would trade almost everything to have a giant cock. I don't want to have a normal life, whatever that is anyway. No, were I sporting something bigger, I could live the life I want, which is to either be a porn actor, or a total stud. I know that is shallow, but it's all I really care about. This goes deeper than just cock size, I know, but sometimes you can't see the forest for the trees, as in my case.

Sex with a woman doesn't scare me. Intimacy does, because I feel vulnerable, and when I feel vulnerable I feel weak, and weakness is not manly. This girl has a way of breaking down my wall of machismo, and seeing who I really am, and it scares the shit out of me. I'm hoping that now that she's seen how insecure I am, maybe she's just pull the plug and do us both a favor.

I went to my psychologist, and he told me to STOP the porn, and I have. I have not intentionally seen porn for ten days or so, and I am not going to view it for a VERY long time, as it only hurts my pysche. I think it has really damaged me.

Wow I relate to practically everything you said. I wonder what the common link is and were it stems from.

Personally, I think im not that great looking and socailly im crap so I think well a big penis would mean that no matter my looks or social skills I would be the king of males to all females (though in reality females prefer the man than the penis often which I find hard to belive and still debate it. Reality if you are over 5-6 inches it dont matter I think?)

Also, my teens was a dialy porn internet addiction due to lack of social skills and acne.

Combine porn addiction with my desire to attract women with a lack of social skills and perhaps at the time ugly/average apperance menat all I could offer a women was a big penis and mind blowing sex. I arent intimate, I arent social, I arent bradd pitt but oh boy if had a 10 incher she and all her freinds would wanna fuk me. That was my mentality.

Well I was actually decnt looking and still am and I was funny and still am so socially I am not that bad but anyway I had horrendous acne and was really skinny which messed my self esteem and I guess having a huge penis would cancel it all.

Look at Ron Jeremy, one ugly dude. Imagine he had only even a 7 inch penis. He would never been famous and not slept with that many hot women or woman at all. Though I think he was a comedian and a cool guy so he may have got some chicks for sure.

But becuase he had a monster cock look how his life turned out. All becuase he had a monster cock.

And like me with a 7 incher when we wanna be Mr ron Jeremy monster cock and base our well being and power and sex appeal on our penis a 7 incher doesnt cut it. It can satisfy a women and be big to some but it just doesnt have that WOW OMFG!!!! appeal..that a 9-10 incher has.

so id say 7 inches is a small ''big'' cock if you kwow what i mean on a scale of big cocks 6.5-10 inches 7 is only small big cock.

Its like being 6ft tall....you are a tall guy but you are not really that tall or stand out as unusual. There are many guys 6'1 6'2 6'3 etc....and the guy who is taller than 6'4-6'5 stands out crazy.

You wanna be the 6'7 guy in terms of dick size. and being 6ft guy whislt pretty good is nothing special to brag about....right?!?!?

Another thing I often and still just want pure hard sex with no intimacy. FOr this cock size would seem important. If I had a 9 incher I could just get all slutty girls 24/7 and have constant sex. I woudlnt even need to chat them up well they woudl just be so excited to see and touch my huge cock it would be fun sex everyday for me.

If I desired intimate sex then cock size would not be so relevant see what I mean.

[joeaverage Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeaverage]

penisma, I hear ya. All this stuff is so frustrating eh? I wish I could have a sort of "break" that would allow me to complete my emotional disconnect with the women I sleep with. I am tired of feeling half-shallow.....I want to go all the way. This "feeling" garbage is too painful! haha. Like you, I feel that if I had a giant one, I could make the leap. Are we weird? Yes, but I bet a lot of men feel this way in some regard, and just don't say it because it is too frightening. I am am a person who is, in essence, ruled by fear, so the idea of having a giant one is like this ultimate fantasy. Like, "Why would I be afraid....I'm bigger than any other guy in this room". You know?

I am considering going celibate. Do you guys think that would help me? If I just removed sex from the equation? No sex = no more feeling inadequate. No more pain.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

You two should stop being weirdos and do PE.

[joeaverage Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeaverage]

You two should stop being weirdos and do PE.

I am so afraid of not only damaging my nerves, but about scar-tissue. Can't fibrosis begin and not stop until your dick is completely useless. I would totally do this if it worked, but I am going to live past 30, so I would rather be average forever and have a penis that worked, then have a slightly larger penis that didn't. I hope I am just being paranoid. If pe could get me to 7nbpx5.5 it would change my life, and I would do whatever it took to get there. I am a highly focused person, and would have no problem doing pe for an hour a day, five days a week. Not if it works. Any guys who have pe'd for over ten years? Any loss of sensation or scar-tissue?

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

its funny I even paid hookers and I wasnt that bothered about sex I was like, so whats my cock like? Is it big? how many guys have bigger cocks? etc..etc..lmao

Even with a normal girl I was asking same stuff.

Totally not intimate more concered about my cock and what she thought about it.

But sexually I am very inexpereinced likened to a 15-16 year old boy who met his first girl. I assume to be like this is norml at this stage in life.

I am older than this techincally but sexually I am not.

I mean I woudlnt expect a 40 year old man to be like this but a 15 year old boy for sure.

And tbh I am at the stage of a 15 year old boy and perhaps so are you?