Young, insecure male.....

[joeaverage Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeaverage]

I am permanently stuck at 18. My girlfriend is away on my parents farm right now, and I had to stay here for work for a few weeks, so I am going to call up this chick that keeps texting me and seal the deal. Never cheated before, should be interesting.

Also, provided I don't cancel my trip to europe with her, I have a plan. She knows that I am going to see my friends in Germany for a few weeks, so when I am there, I am going to the red light discrict to get a hooker. Always wanted to, but never did because I used to think it was beneath me. Now I don't want to be wholesome. I want to be filthy and nastier than most guys.

The good thing about preemptive-cheating is that if I beat her to the punch, I won't care nearly as much. She may love me, but ldr's seldom work. Not when there is this much distance between us. She will most likely be too busy do exams to cheat on me, but she is there for three months before she comes back, so who knows?

If she comes back, I am really up shit-creek. Guess I should pull the plug....but the sex is GOOD.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

I am so afraid of not only damaging my nerves, but about scar-tissue. Can't fibrosis begin and not stop until your dick is completely useless. I would totally do this if it worked, but I am going to live past 30, so I would rather be average forever and have a penis that worked, then have a slightly larger penis that didn't. I hope I am just being paranoid. If pe could get me to 7nbpx5.5 it would change my life, and I would do whatever it took to get there. I am a highly focused person, and would have no problem doing pe for an hour a day, five days a week. Not if it works. Any guys who have pe'd for over ten years? Any loss of sensation or scar-tissue?

If you take your time you can do PE and get 8x6 if you choose and unlike many men in their 50's and 60's you will not need viagra.

its funny I even paid hookers and I wasnt that bothered about sex I was like, so whats my cock like? Is it big? how many guys have bigger cocks? etc..etc..lmao

Even with a normal girl I was asking same stuff.

Totally not intimate more concered about my cock and what she thought about it.

But sexually I am very inexpereinced likened to a 15-16 year old boy who met his first girl. I assume to be like this is norml at this stage in life.

I am older than this techincally but sexually I am not.

I mean I woudlnt expect a 40 year old man to be like this but a 15 year old boy for sure.

And tbh I am at the stage of a 15 year old boy and perhaps so are you?

How long ago did you have sex with hookers? You were underage when you did?

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

I am permanently stuck at 18. My girlfriend is away on my parents farm right now, and I had to stay here for work for a few weeks, so I am going to call up this chick that keeps texting me and seal the deal. Never cheated before, should be interesting.

Also, if I don't cancel my trip to france with her, I am going to the red light discrict in Germany to finally get a hooker. Always wanted to, but never did because I used to think it was beneath me. Now I don't want to be wholesome. I want to be filthy and nastier than most guys.

lol Im planning to go to frankfurt or berlin very soon. You are in UK?

They also have a thing called FKK with 100s of beautiful women all naked in a big palace type place.

Google it.

You are me in disguise? My alter ego?

[joeaverage Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeaverage]

If you take your time you can do PE and get 8x6 if you choose and unlike many men in their 50's and 60's you will not need viagra.

Okay. That would be great! My lot is non-existent though, so is it unlikely that I can get any length gains from ligaments? Also, have you heard about fibrosis? Is it a risk?

I would be so happy if I could be big!

Penisma, I don't think we are alter egos. We just have similar insecurities. I am not skinny and never had acne, but I used to be chubby and had narrow teeth, so maybe that affected my self-esteem, as your skinnyness and acne affected yours.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

It does most so.

BUT dont you agree that his penis is the last thing he needs to work on. And that it is a good size. Not a moster porn cock. But from a physical point of view his penis can and should be more than adequate for most females?

Personally, yes, I do. However, even if you've got a huge dick, if you've got huge insecurity issues as the OP seems to, it wouldn't matter if he was sporting a 9 incher, he's still going to have those same feelings of inadequacy. His issues seemed to focus more on his gf and her sleeping with other guys prior and some guy who took pictures of her after they had rough sex than his penis size.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

If you haven't made a thread in the introduction thread you can do it and ask your questions there, there's been people PE'ing here for 7+ years and I'm sure they can tell you how much good it's done to them. Also the only side effects I have are length and girth gains oh and also hard erections.

[joeaverage Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeaverage]

If you haven't made a thread in the introduction thread you can do it and ask your questions there, there's been people PE'ing here for 7+ years and I'm sure they can tell you how much good it's done to them. Also the only side effects I have are length and girth gains oh and also hard erections.

That's wonderful, but have you HEARD of fibrosis? Is it a risk. That's what I want to know.

Also, on the size front, I am aware that my size is "adequate", but I don't want to be just "adequate", I want to rank amongst the best lays that the women I sleep with have had, and I feel illequiped to do so.

[Steve23 Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close Steve23]

The best lays are the ones that know what they are doing, with their mouth, fingers, penis, words. Size is just a tiny part of it. Yeah I heard of fibrosis and no you don't get that from PE.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

The best lays are the ones that know what they are doing, with their mouth, fingers, penis, words. Size is just a tiny part of it. Yeah I heard of fibrosis and no you don't get that from PE.

I totally support Steve23 here. If you feel inadequate based on your size, I'm sorry bro, but that's all you. A woman digs ALOT more than just a guy's size...........in fact, any woman who strictly based her sexual experiences on a guy's size would be a very shallow and inexperienced woman. Great sex uses the mouth, fingers, words, penis............all the things that Steve23 referenced above. Sex is so...............SO much more than just the size of your dick.

[TTBB Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close TTBB]

That's wonderful, but have you HEARD of fibrosis? Is it a risk. That's what I want to know.

Also, on the size front, I am aware that my size is "adequate", but I don't want to be just "adequate", I want to rank amongst the best lays that the women I sleep with have had, and I feel illequiped to do so.

your penis size is more than enough to satisfy... more then many men have.

[joeaverage Member Find all posts View Profile Close joeaverage]

I totally support Steve23 here. If you feel inadequate based on your size, I'm sorry bro, but that's all you. A woman digs ALOT more than just a guy's size...........in fact, any woman who strictly based her sexual experiences on a guy's size would be a very shallow and inexperienced woman. Great sex uses the mouth, fingers, words, penis............all the things that Steve23 referenced above. Sex is so...............SO much more than just the size of your dick.

I keep hearing that, and always thought it was what women told men to make them feel less insecure, and that a big cock was all that mattered, but maybe, given the ubiquity of the opinion you stated, it is actually true, and I really am just a shallow, clueless idiot. Lol.

I think I am pretty good at kissing and foreplay, considering that the few women I slept with all wanted more sex with me, and that they were so wet and aroused that I thought they were a bit loose down there sometimes. I don't go to nightclubs much, but when I do, I almost always grind on a few girls and get a great make-out session, usually followed be a second round. Granted, those nights in the clubs never lead to sex, but I never pushed for it either, cause I wasn't really that interested at the time. I just like making-out in and of itself.

Now, I know that none of that speaks for my sexual prowess, but, the second woman I slept with must have told her friends about me, because after the first night with her, the next party I went to, there were a couple of her friends that I had already met who seemed way more interested in me. The girl at one point came and dragged me away from one of them, out of what looked like jealousy. I couldn't believe it, cause I rarely go to parties, so I could only assume that she must have told them something positive about the sex and they wanted to know more about me. She may have wanted more with me, as she texted me a lot and wanted to see me often, but I didn't like her personality, so we only got together a couple more times before I stopped texting back.

I am getting the impression that I am good in bed, but good is not enough. I want to be GREAT.

Another thing I haven't mentioned is that I am quite lean and fit, but when I see my body, I see an unattractive fat man. Weird. Could that have something to do with my other problems?

I am very thankful for all of your advice, and am considering it all. I want to feel better about life than I do, and this is the best thing I have ever decided to do about achieving that. Most of my friends would only give me some, "get manlier" baloney. I heart this forum!

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

That's wonderful, but have you HEARD of fibrosis? Is it a risk. That's what I want to know.

Also, on the size front, I am aware that my size is "adequate", but I don't want to be just "adequate", I want to rank amongst the best lays that the women I sleep with have had, and I feel illequiped to do so.

But penis size =/= best lay

So try read loversguide forums or soemthing.

[penisma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close penisma]

. I am getting the impression that I am good in bed, but good is not enough. I want to be GREAT.

why? really why?

I am so opposite. Im like a pervert I like depraved sex as much as anything.

I like to sit on a woman and get her suck me off I like to fist her and cum on her face. There is minimal enjoyment for her I guess unless she is into hard porn style stuff and that.

As for being great at sex or love making lmao I couldnt give 2 craps as long as I get aroused and enjoy it. But I think when you sometimes go out to enjoy yourself then you do well and maybe they lik eit. When you go out to do soemthing to be evauated on perfromance you can mess up cause you trying or thinking to hard and stress is.

Like when I put on my guitar alone I play amazing and its great. But if someone asks me to play a song I can mess it up as Im trying to please them and under evalution of performance not playing for me. See what I mean?

Ah well, I guess its better to be me than you? My problem is Im more likely to not get repeat sex or end up in jail whereas you are more likely to suffer perfomance anxiety and depression related to sex/females lol

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

I keep hearing that, and always thought it was what women told men to make them feel less insecure, and that a big cock was all that mattered, but maybe, given the ubiquity of the opinion you stated, it is actually true, and I really am just a shallow, clueless idiot. Lol.

I think I am pretty good at kissing and foreplay, considering that the few women I slept with all wanted more sex with me, and that they were so wet and aroused that I thought they were a bit loose down there sometimes. I don't go to nightclubs much, but when I do, I almost always grind on a few girls and get a great make-out session, usually followed be a second round. Granted, those nights in the clubs never lead to sex, but I never pushed for it either, cause I wasn't really that interested at the time. I just like making-out in and of itself.

Now, I know that none of that speaks for my sexual prowess, but, the second woman I slept with must have told her friends about me, because after the first night with her, the next party I went to, there were a couple of women I had already met who seemed way more interested in me. The girl was very chatty, so who knows. I couldn't believe it, cause I rarely go to parties, so I could only assume that she must have told them something positive about the sex. She may have wanted more with me, as she texted me a lot and wanted to see me a lot, but I didn't like her personality, so we only got together a couple more times before I stopped texting back. I am getting the impression that I am good in bed, but good is not enough. I want to be GREAT.

Dude, you have to know it within YOU. It doesn't matter what any woman thinks about your dick, YOU have to know within your own mind that you are THE MAN! Period. I guarantee you, you might be getting by with this insecure bullshit with women now but many, MANY women won't give you the time of day if they sense you're insecure or unsure of yourself as a man. Women want a guy who's confident in his abilities, both in and out of bed. Women want a man, not a little boy.

Instead of focusing on being "GREAT" in bed, why don't you focus more on just being a good man? Being great in bed is such a small, SMALL part of the entire package.

[MrBigDick Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close MrBigDick]

why? really why?

I am so opposite. Im like a pervert I like depraved sex as much as anything.

I like to sit on a woman and get her suck me off I like to fist her and cum on her face. There is minimal enjoyment for her I guess unless she is into hard porn style stuff and that.

As for being great at sex or love making lmao I couldnt give 2 craps as long as I get aroused and enjoy it.

Ah well, I guess its better to be me than you? My problem is Im more likely to not get repeat sex or end up in jail whereas you are more likely to suffer perfomance anxiety and depression related to sex/females lol

Wow penisma, I'm stunned by this post. I feel for you man..........