Guy who has zero experience

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

Women friends usually have other women friends who-could set you up-have you tried this. And yes, I am of age.

I have no women friends so it doesn't really work, for me at this moment at least. I mean this girl I think might like me now would be a cool friend, but she lives kinda far from me so the only reason I would go to where she lives is if I thought I had a chance.

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

That's bullshit and you know it. Stop making excuses. You're a fucking champ, act like it.

Lol that was/is really good advice. I wish I could revert my thinking to be like that.

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Something weird that I noticed today. People love telling me how great a dad/husband I'll be. Messed up thing is that some of them know that I probably won't ever date or anything, yet they think that is an astute observation. Weird.

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Some people tell me that, too. They can sense that I should not pester and annoy young women with my gnat-like penis. Instead, I must remain celibate, involuntarily, until I can make a living and find one that's ready to "settle down" (give up on big dicks and fun. Trying to find someone to leech off for the rest of their lives.) Sucks to be us.

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Some people tell me that, too. They can sense that I should not pester and annoy young women with my gnat-like penis. Instead, I must remain celibate, involuntarily, until I can make a living and find one that's ready to "settle down" (give up on big dicks and fun. Trying to find someone to leech off for the rest of their lives.) Sucks to be us.

Exactly. I mean, at this point they have to know my dick is pathetic.

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Amoik you break my heart sometimes.
so defeating towards yourself.
umm no we don't know what your penis size is and we don't even add it to the equation when deciding me like someone.
even once the pants come down it doesn't dictate how we feel about a guy.(if it happens then it means the girl was shallow and her interest in all of you was not strong enough)
if you believe that you are going to be single forever then you will be ..because you aren't promoting yourself.
You seem to be caught in a victim mentality .. guess what you aren't a victim .. your cock rocks because it works... your cock rocks because it can provide pleasure to a special someone.. but until you believe you are more then your penis you will never allow anyone to get close enough to discover a more then platonic existence with you.
i have read many of your posts..i can see your are a sweet guy who just lacks a little confidence... please do not get caught up on Ridicules mentality .. you have so much you can offer a person.. and your penis regardless of its size is the bonus to relationships not the center point.

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Amoik you break my heart sometimes.
so defeating towards yourself.
umm no we don't know what your penis size is and we don't even add it to the equation when deciding me like someone.
even once the pants come down it doesn't dictate how we feel about a guy.(if it happens then it means the girl was shallow and her interest in all of you was not strong enough)
if you believe that you are going to be single forever then you will be ..because you aren't promoting yourself.
You seem to be caught in a victim mentality .. guess what you aren't a victim .. your cock rocks because it works... your cock rocks because it can provide pleasure to a special someone.. but until you believe you are more then your penis you will never allow anyone to get close enough to discover a more then platonic existence with you.
i have read many of your posts..i can see your are a sweet guy who just lacks a little confidence... please do not get caught up on Ridicules mentality .. you have so much you can offer a person.. and your penis regardless of its size is the bonus to relationships not the center point.

I'm sorry. I had been in a really good frame of mind for a while, until yesterday. For some reason the cynical, I'd say reality seeing , side came back out. Pretty much I'm eternally pissed off. I can't stop thinking of sh*t that I've heard or that was done to me. Hopefully I will get back in the good frame of mind.

As to me saying they probably know I have a small dick, I mean people that know I'm a total virgin yet tell me I'll be a good husband/father. I mean by this that they probably know because why else would I avoid women? I remember, back in high school, a dude straight out saying that I must have a small dick because he never saw me with a girl. What a smart dude.

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Back in high school people say dumbass things as a way to peg people .. he was trying to emasculate you to make himself look like the man.. no people do not automatically jump to that conclusion when you have a virgin male...people generally think the guy is lacking in confidence with woman .shy... or not at a point where he wants to be in a relationship.. a late bloomer.
When people say oh he must have a small dick they are joking and degrading the person..

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

Back in high school people say dumbass things as a way to peg people .. he was trying to emasculate you to make himself look like the man.. no people do not automatically jump to that conclusion when you have a virgin male...people generally think the guy is lacking in confidence with woman .shy... or not at a point where he wants to be in a relationship.. a late bloomer.
When people say oh he must have a small dick they are joking and degrading the person..

Well, he was right haha.

I was shy, but that doesn't even explain me now. It's so compounded on top of my original shyness.

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It was just bad luck.. he would say that comment to anyone .. it just happens to be right that you feel your penis is small and that is part of the reason you hold back.
there are guys who are hung who are virgins ..because they are shy and awkward with woman or lack social skills.. it has nothing to do with penis size...it has to do with belief or worth, belief of ability.

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It was just bad luck.. he would say that comment to anyone .. it just happens to be right that you feel your penis is small and that is part of the reason you hold back.
there are guys who are hung who are virgins ..because they are shy and awkward with woman or lack social skills.. it has nothing to do with penis size...it has to do with belief or worth, belief of ability.

Yea I get that there are hung virgins. Dick size isn't the main reason, I acknowledge that. But it's another thing that just adds on to the enormous pile.

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IT doesn't have to be added to the pile.
I would suggest you don't give up on yourself ever having a relationship... and to stop putting that energy out into the world.
start telling yourself you deserve to find someone who will love you.. that you are a great guy.. that you are confident in who you are.
tell yourself daily instead of the negatives that you tell yourself... create positive energy towards yourself.

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And let's not forget all the women that are being deprived of a good poking because this guy is boycotting the market. Those poor women.

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And let's not forget all the women that are being deprived of a good poking because this guy is boycotting the market. Those poor women.

Funny

[amiok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close amiok]

IT doesn't have to be added to the pile.
I would suggest you don't give up on yourself ever having a relationship... and to stop putting that energy out into the world.
start telling yourself you deserve to find someone who will love you.. that you are a great guy.. that you are confident in who you are.
tell yourself daily instead of the negatives that you tell yourself... create positive energy towards yourself.

But is it true? Haha, I'm about to get all trippy