Edging 101

[steve123 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close steve123]

I'm sure many new guys have this same issue. I dont know how to judge the length of time spent edging, but I will describe it like this. Total session time was 15 minutes. I got "close" to the PONR 2 different times and was able to stop. then on the 5 minute later, I hit the PONR and stayed there for 10 seconds or so before losing it. So what I ask to anyone reading this, is how long did I edge for?

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

I'm sure many new guys have this same issue. I dont know how to judge the length of time spent edging, but I will describe it like this. Total session time was 15 minutes. I got "close" to the PONR 2 different times and was able to stop. then on the 5 minute later, I hit the PONR and stayed there for 10 seconds or so before losing it. So what I ask to anyone reading this, is how long did I edge for?

You lasted 15 minutes, thats a great start.

[BobbyPaul Member Find all posts View Profile Close BobbyPaul]

I've been edging without knowing for years, but now that I've read about it, I wanna start back to the basics. But I have some questions :

How is it possible to get to the point of no return while only slowly stroking the base of the shaft?

When I masturbate and reach the PONR but stop before cumming, I really gotta be careful not to lose my erection, is that normal?

Thx.

[aidan784 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close aidan784]

Well to be fair Kingpole says to work your way slowly up from the base to the frenulum, that's what gets you to the PONR.
For me edging is very different to masturbation, masturbation is purely going for climax/ejaculation in esentially as little time as possible with a palm's full grip that is more tight/rough than with edging.
Edging gives you the chance to be more exploratory and give slower, more gentle strokes to different areas, finding your own trigger areas, which eventually leads to ballooning.
As for your question about losing your erection when you reach the PONR and stop, that loss should become less and less with practice, from a 10 to 6 to a 10 to 9 or better. One technique to improve that is when approaching the PONR is to avoid the corona and frenulum and stay near the base, for around 15 seconds before the point of orgasm and for a while after. Howver this technique may not be appropriate when applied to sex so 'more realistic' practice may be better. Good luck.

[vankush Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close vankush]

If I edge right after a PE session, should I do it before or after the warm down?

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

If I edge right after a PE session, should I do it before or after the warm down?

Before warmdown the object is to stay fully erect as long as possible.

[vankush Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close vankush]

I don't ejaculate every time I edge because I'm trying to cut back on masturbating, but on some of the times a don't, I tiny bit of semen will seep through towards the end of the session (usually when I know to stop), is this bad? I mean is it bad to ejaculate a little bit without having a full on orgasm?

[growth_problem Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close growth_problem]

I don't ejaculate every time I edge because I'm trying to cut back on masturbating, but on some of the times a don't, I tiny bit of semen will seep through towards the end of the session (usually when I know to stop), is this bad? I mean is it bad to ejaculate a little bit without having a full on orgasm?

No, this happens to me as well. This is normal, I don't care if your a pornstar from brazzers, you will still precum after edging a little.

[hangtime21 Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close hangtime21]

how do you know when it's time to blow your load or stop edging? Is it timed?

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

how do you know when it's time to blow your load or stop edging? Is it timed?

When your hand gets to tired or you fall asleep from boredom. When you want to end the session.

[celinajait Member Find all posts View Profile Close celinajait]

hello PEple,

i edge after every PE session. i edge (that is stroke the base of my penis only) and i can last for like 25 mins before boredom strikes and i start beginning to lose my erection. Now this is the thing

1. When i edge i feel my EQ increases and length increases by about 0.1 - 0.2 inches depending on different days. but if the next day i just masturbate its not of the same size that is the 0.1 - 0.2 inches is missing.

2. if i just edge i am all fine but the moment i touch my head or the back side of the head i get the feeling of cumming out. how do i master that..

Thanks

[Pegasus AdministratorPE Gym EditorPEGym Hero ☺ Admin of the Month Mar 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Pegasus]

One question ,1 answer practise.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

God said study to show yourself approved.

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

Should I grab the base of my shaft to stop myself from coming?

My first edging session lasted around 20 minutes and I grabbed my shaft at PONR.
However I did "leak" about 2-3 times, just a small amount.
And I stroked all of the penis (and my hands hurt after that). Now that's a no-no until I can last a clean 20 minutes, stroking the base only. But what I don't understand is that is it the lower end or the upper end? Sorry if this is a bit confusing, here is my crude representation: 8==========D (not to scale).

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Should I grab the base of my shaft to stop myself from coming?

My first edging session lasted around 20 minutes and I grabbed my shaft at PONR.
However I did "leak" about 2-3 times, just a small amount.
And I stroked all of the penis (and my hands hurt after that). Now that's a no-no until I can last a clean 20 minutes, stroking the base only. But what I don't understand is that is it the lower end or the upper end? Sorry if this is a bit confusing, here is my crude representation: 8==========D (not to scale).

20 minutes is exellent, leaking is not ejaculation.