Edging 101

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

So I wanted to try edging before I went to bed. Just finished right now. For the sake of trying to go to sleep before 3:30 I made this a 20 minute session. I loosened up my lower body and stroked for 10 minutes. then I clenched my buttox and pelvic muscle (in a way I was holding a kegel) and reached the PONR in about 2 minutes and I can feel the cum coming up my shaft and I kegeled to hold it in and pre-cum came out and I went to about a 40-60 percent erection until I was able to reach to back to 100% in a about 10-20 seconds. I began to stroke for another for another 5 minutes then again I clenched my buttox and pelvic muscle to reach the PONR. I went limp and it seemed like it was impossible to get my erection back up. I began to massage it and started stroking it limp like a mad man until I was able to get it back to 90% only to explode seconds after. Is going that limp normal when edging? Also, I find it if i don't clench my buttox and pelvic muscle it seems like I can just stroke and stroke for hours without cumming. Is this normal as well?

It can be nomal, going from limp to erect to limp to erect again is a healthy exercise. especially during the long sessions.

[Newbie_to_pe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Newbie_to_pe]

It seems I have run into a little problem lately while edging. When I feel close to the PONR, I do a strong kegel. However, instead of stopping me from ejaculating, this seems to have the opposite effect and makes me cum faster, even if I stop stroking..not sure what it is I'm doing wrong. I had been doing this method for a few months and was working fine, but last 2 weeks I have run into this problem? Maybe I have fallen into a bad habit and doing the kegel wrong? But I can't feel any difference from what I was doing before..any ideas?

Im no expert on the subject but it sounds like either your getting too close to the ponr or your bc muscle has got larger due to the kegel excercises and is touching your prostate making you cum, try backing off before you reach the ponr then continue after the need has subsided. If it is your bc muscle then try reverse kegel instead, the force of "pushing" moves the muscle away from the prostate and thus stops the need to cum

[Newbie_to_pe Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Newbie_to_pe]

It seems I have run into a little problem lately while edging. When I feel close to the PONR, I do a strong kegel. However, instead of stopping me from ejaculating, this seems to have the opposite effect and makes me cum faster, even if I stop stroking..not sure what it is I'm doing wrong. I had been doing this method for a few months and was working fine, but last 2 weeks I have run into this problem? Maybe I have fallen into a bad habit and doing the kegel wrong? But I can't feel any difference from what I was doing before..any ideas?

Im no expert on the subject but it sounds like either your getting too close to the ponr or your bc muscle has got larger due to the kegel excercises and is touching your prostate making you cum, try backing off before you reach the ponr then continue after the need has subsided. If it is your bc muscle then try reverse kegel instead, the force of "pushing" moves the muscle away from the prostate and thus stops the need to cum

[Brenok Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Brenok]

Also, I find it if i don't clench my buttox and pelvic muscle it seems like I can just stroke and stroke for hours without cumming. Is this normal as well?

Same deal here. I can stroke as fast as my arm can go, but my dick will go numb before I reach ejaculation.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Same deal here. I can stroke as fast as my arm can go, but my dick will go numb before I reach ejaculation.

Try fish oil if you have difficulty ejaculating.

[OMG! Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close OMG!]

OK, so I am starting to get the hang of edging. Two days in a row now I have backed off when approaching the PONR. Then, later, when I finally let go and cum I only ejaculate a little, probably a third of normal. Anyone else ever experience this? Is this bad or good?

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

OK, so I am starting to get the hang of edging. Two days in a row now I have backed off when approaching the PONR. Then, later, when I finally let go and cum I only ejaculate a little, probably a third of normal. Anyone else ever experience this? Is this bad or good?

Yeah, many have. Go ahead and blow the entire load.

[Growplz Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Growplz]

Is it ok if I keep shooting while practicing edging? I seem to get to PONR 2-3 times, but accidentally shoot if I continue to do so. Does ejaculating significantly affect my gains?

[OMG! Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close OMG!]

Yeah, many have. Go ahead and blow the entire load.

Thanks, KP, but what I meant is that I go ahead and masturbate after edging a few times and when I cum I have a complete orgasm but I don't produce the normal amount of semen. I normally produce a lot but after edging I only produce maybe a third of what I typically produce. Is that weird or normal?

[OMG! Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close OMG!]

Also, KP, I think I may have had my first dry orgasm today. I edged right up to the PONR until I felt semen entering the base of my penis, then I stopped, kegeled hard and waited for the sensation to subside. As it did, I just touched my penis and OMG, I started to have an irresistible orgasm. I kegeled hard to stem the flow of semen and had a powerful orgasm, not completely dry (I had a small amount of semen). It was like having sex. I was satisfied, went limp, and was tearing the house apart looking for a cigarette (and I don't even smoke!).

Was that a dry orgasm?

[BackMask Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close BackMask]

Also, KP, I think I may have had my first dry orgasm today. I edged right up to the PONR until I felt semen entering the base of my penis, then I stopped, kegeled hard and waited for the sensation to subside. As it did, I just touched my penis and OMG, I started to have an irresistible orgasm. I kegeled hard to stem the flow of semen and had a powerful orgasm, not completely dry (I had a small amount of semen). It was like having sex. I was satisfied, went limp, and was tearing the house apart looking for a cigarette (and I don't even smoke!).

Was that a dry orgasm?

I THINK when you have a dry orgasm you don't go limp.

[sweetaddict Junior Member Find all posts View Profile Close sweetaddict]

Hey KP, i did my first edging session today after starting the 90day routine, and it was good i think.... however everytime i go near the glans i get this involuntary kegal and i get close to exploding, if i kegal harder the urge to cum gets greater, am i doing something wrong?

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Hey KP, i did my first edging session today after starting the 90day routine, and it was good i think.... however everytime i go near the glans i get this involuntary kegal and i get close to exploding, if i kegal harder the urge to cum gets greater, am i doing something wrong?

Don't kegel, perhaps those muscles are strong enough, edge w/o kegaling see how it goes.

[Hanma Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hanma]

Hmm, I was edging the other day and I got pretty erect. Without kegeling or reverse kegeling and I didn't feel any urge to cum. So it was like I was very erect but not aroused. Is that possible? I don't know what to make out of this.

What I DID do to get so erect was to grab my shaft with both of my hands, wrap my fingers around it and slide my hands slowly upwards one by one. Oh,I also noticed that when I did reverse kegels the glans seemed to swell noticeably.

[kingpole Retired ModeratorPEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close kingpole]

Hmm, I was edging the other day and I got pretty erect. Without kegeling or reverse kegeling and I didn't feel any urge to cum. So it was like I was very erect but not aroused. Is that possible? I don't know what to make out of this.

What I DID do to get so erect was to grab my shaft with both of my hands, wrap my fingers around it and slide my hands slowly upwards one by one. Oh,I also noticed that when I did reverse kegels the glans seemed to swell noticeably.

sounds like your having good edging sessions, perhaps you better measure that thing.