Incogneeetoe's "Progress" thread

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

I do do my edging after uli's and jelqing.

Actually, I've started doing uli's mid edging. I get up to the point I start to feel that 'tickle', not nearly the PONR, more of an 8 or 8.5, then go into uli and uli stretch, while fully erect, keeping at an 8 or 9, like a plateau, then once I've complete the uli part I go back to edging for as long as time allows.

After jelqing I edge again, while in the shower...bring it up to a 9 or so, then do my hair, and calm down, then up to a 9 or so and wash body, etc. I think it helps me by keep my mind and body distracted, not just focused on the erection.

[lastditch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lastditch]

ok.cool that should work pretty good.have you tried lightly clamping off with one hand after the uli's to edge at 110% expansion?have you read my thread on pulsing?i'm trying to get a couple of regular edger's to try it out and give me some feed back.if you try it let me know.thanks

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ah, frustration city…today is the 17th, which is the day I had designated for measuring. Not really my main purpose, but as I am doing the exercises and my wife, while being unaware of my PE, has noted differences in both size (indirectly) and EQ. So as prescribed, I keep stats. I had noticed seeming increases in both length and girth. I was kinda looking forward to measuring. The last few weeks have also seen improvements in my premature ejaculation, so I had been feeling good and confident.

Unfortunately, I only had about about a half hour window today for PE, as morning classes went long and my son was coming home, so I think I rushed into things.

I had barely started edging when I hit the point just before the PONR. Really frustrating. I tried reverse kegels and breathing, but couldn’t continue without risk. So I decided to switch to just doing uli’s and stretches…and did two ulis when the phone rang. I maintained an erection, and tried to get back into the exercises, but just couldn't get back from that PONR. So I let it fly. Felt terrible.

[lastditch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lastditch]

just bang your wife extra long tonight to make up for it.

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

Argh. Came home, did my jelq routine and some edging in shower after work last night. Got the erection up to 100%, but for my edging maintained at about 85%, just exercising at a plateau of 8~9, didn't want to get up near PONR.

Then tried again this morning for my uli/edging work... Again problems with control! Had a hard time getting it up. Feeling a little nervous maybe, then I couldn't do much edging, got right up to 9.5 too quick and had a hard time keeping it down at 9. Did the ulis and uli stretches at about 90% and below, used kegels to pump up to 95% and was able to finish the routine, but very frustrating.

Wanted to try that pulsing stuff, but, well, y'know, frustraton.

I have been slacking off on my kegels...used to do 100 or so every time I started the car, as the engine warmed up, so that was usually 4 sets per day, minimum. Plus every time I got into a steady drive I would do 10-20 5 second holds. These days I bike everywhere, good for health, but it has dropped kegels out of my routine. So I only do a set of 10 10 second holds now with a reverse kegel set. Maybe I've got get those back into my routine...

Did a rough measurement and my NBPEL is at 7.75in and MEG at 6.25, but it was measured at end of another frustrating edging session...not fully erect, maybe 90-95%...not going to add to my sig until I can confirm the stats.

Oh well, one jelq tonight after work, then take a few days off...just gonna keep up kegels and reverse kegels.

[lastditch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lastditch]

maybe the uli's are too much before you edge.have you tried cockring edging?the pulsing stuff is actually easier when clamping or using a cockring.you could try just edging every other day on off days?

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

well, took the weekend off from enlargement exercies, worked on my kegels, and just relaxed.
all weekend had some tingling in the old balls, and had started to wonder...
my wife was horny this AM, and she rolled over and started to play with my member. I was worried as I was already feeling close to the PONR, so I took over, kissed and focused on her neck and breasts until I was hard enough. then with some careful breathing and reverse kegels I was able to get her close to the edge in missionary.
I withdrew and regrouped, turned her over and brought her home. I needed to clamp down on a kegel at one pointy, but once she came I was able to relax and keep going. after she came again I decided to stop.
still some problems, but better than last week...may try edging today if I get a chance

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Have you ever surprised yourself?

Last night my wife couldn't sleep, so we went at it. I took my time, got her good and ready before trying penetration. Then I used the Taoist thrusting technique, got all the way to the end, (10 deep thrusts) without loosing control...felt pretty good (that is 55 shallow and 50 deep thrusts). The wife was really turned on, so I turned her over and brought her home, but just as she was cumming I hit the PONR, so I clamped down and stopped thrusting, luckily she still came.
After she came she said it was "too big, too much" so I stopped.
We had been doing with the lights off...usually we do it lights on, but it all happened quick.
After we had finished she turned on the bathroom light and I got a good look at my erection, and wow was it big, I was surprised. Fully erect, an EQ of 10 for sure. Wish I could have measured right then. I'd swear it was bigger than usual.

[lastditch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lastditch]

good for you.have you been edging for an hour at a time yet?i used to lose my erection right after i cum when i had PRE-E problems,now i usually have a 90% erection for 4-5 minutes then big semi for another 5 or so after i cum(with no stimulation at all).seems like the longer i keep my smooth muscle fully engorged during edging the more often i have big plump semi erections most of the day even if i don't edge every day.

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I'd love to be able to edge for an hour..use to do that when I was working on the opposite side of the planet from my wife and son...now that we are all in the same house it is rare to get time to edge that long <sigh>

[lastditch Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close lastditch]

find ways to get your wife to edge you,she will probably have fun/enjoy it.just send your kid out for a while.or just have your wife edge you a few times a day.

[incogneeetoe Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2017*Special Appreciated Moderator Nov. 2021* PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close incogneeetoe]

I don't know why I spend so much time on this silliness...following this thread: https://www.pegym.com/forums/beginne...nis-sizes.html

based on the info from
Super Complicated Dick Size Percentile Calculator
according to Hungfun's chart "in a room of 1000 guys, 0 should be both longer and girthier than" me... That's more voluminous than 99.89% of other men! Even if I go by Herbenick's study only 6 should be both longer and girthier than me, still more voluminous than 97.8% of dudes. And yet I still read these reports and compare and worry about the size of my member.

This is supported by the information here:
Study Reveals Which Countries Have The Biggest (And Smallest) Penises

Good grief, if I take into account the research included that was conducted by Mandatory.com, which aimed to rank countries based on their average penis size, I live in the red zone...according to Hungfun's chart my dick is about 23.55 in³ but the average in my area is "at most 5.47 in^3". 4 times larger than the local average (and still growing). That is nuts.

I'm going to stop thinking about this and go do something worthwhile.

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LLinks I want to save but don't want to bookmark on my computer...

whenever I feel inadequate I can go here:

The Visualiser

Mr Average?

and food for thought:
Does Penis Size Matter To Women?Marni's Wing Girl Method

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Well, it's been a while for any updates:
big holiday last week, so much family time, little alone time with the wife and just before that was her time of the month...
Working on edging on my own has been going very well, no troubles keeping away from that PONR.
After about two weeks of edging without release I decided to myself relief last Friday.
And then last few days have given me opportunities to practice on the wife. Twice we had sex and twice I got her to two orgasms.

The first time was fairly easy, but as usual while I was able to go at if for a while in missionary, I could not get her off that way and had to switch to our "go to" position, rear entry. But she did cum twice...the second time really quickly after the first.
Today she came home and we had a short time before our son came home. She was prancing around in her undies so I had to attack her.
Same problem, I was able to go for a while in missionary, but had to switch to get her off. It was good, but I fear this lack of variety will wear thin for her.

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Friday was a busy day. Spent it with my wife and son, meeting people and networking. So my wife was all dressed up. Looking so fine. I planned to nail her that night. But as it was a long and busy day she fell asleep while putting our son to bed.

So I decided to have a good long edging session. Lasted about 45 minutes. I kept myself calm and only got up to 9 or so on the ejaculation scale. I did my best to avoid any kegeling, and was able to about 25 minutes without even an involuntary kegel. By the end I was super hard. Completely inflated, skin stretched taunt. It had been a long while since I hit that level of hardness...since before I started stretching last year. It felt great. Should have measured. In the end I ejaculated.

Flash forward to the AM, we had to get up and go to an event at the sons kindi. So my wife came to wake me up at about 8...but first she wanted to get off. I was hard in an instant. Time was tight, so we quickly go into the rear entry position and she came. As we had a reached her goal so quickly we still had a few minutes, so I pulled her ass up into a doggy pose and just enjoyed pumping her for a while. I expected to hit the PONR quickly, so didn't expect much. But I didn't, I was able to continue up to the point that we had to stop: it was getting to be too much for her and we had to going with our day. Maybe 5 minutes. That is a record for me in doggy.