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[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

Yup. That's quite valuable.

PS: I'm curious if you've had experience with having your fornix stimulated?

[BigRooster Senior Member Member of the Month Apr 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close BigRooster]

Welcome back Qandisa!

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

Maybe my wife's ass is getting bigger on purpose, should I bring it up with her?

http://youtu.be/RPX2cQP8uoI

Abe must have been Hung!

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

PS: I'm curious if you've had experience with having your fornix stimulated?

I'm trying to figure out how to properly answer that one. I don't know about other women but for me it's difficult to pinpoint stimulation on any particular interior part of my anatomy. I can tell you that I don't particularly like having fingers inserted and digging about in there - in fact I find it really annoying and it pretty much turns me off right away.

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

Welcome Back Q!

Your Wisdom is refreshing for the collective Youth!

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

Qandisa im dead serious, i was about to start a thread asking (the women), if they ever went from a small/average to an endowed size, and forever thought sm/average was a no go, OR, if they had gone from sm/avg to big and actually preferred the former
But then i read what you said and it made me change my mind.
Wait, above i just asked the question i intended lol
Anyway qandisa, you seem like a reasonable intelligent even understanding type of person that quality in itself is amazing, ima get me a woman like that n she goin let me love her!! Lol thanks for being a part of pegym qandisa, youre postings help men more than you know. x)

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Awwww see, that's what I missed about this place - the unconditional love and support

Anyway...

Honestly I'd been thinking for a while that I should head back here, and then my experience with New FWB was really an affirmation of that. Not just because I wanted to come and say see I had incredible sex with a guy with a totally average penis and it was better than the really big guys I've been with, but because of his attitude towards his size before we had sex and his belief that most women were looking for and wanting really well-endowed guys. It honestly makes me sad to think that he - and guys like him, like so many that I see on here - are so down on themselves and feeling inadequate when really there's absolutely no need to be.

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

Haha well im glad to have helped make you feel that way
But yeah, im not too confident about it either, i dont know where the mindset came from that us 'average' guys are not as visually stimulating as a longer thicker member is. I feel it is very true, but all we can do is jelq, and one day, the hard work will pay off. Cant wait for that day! Til then, going to work and press forward

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

Or not as desirable to women because of our size
Preference is relative though

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

You are plenty big enough Serg. I promise.

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

Part of it too could be that the bigger the dick, the less of a dick you can be, lol. In other words, the closer to average you are, you don't have to be as careful during sex. If you are larger, then you really need to listen to your partner and put them above yourself -- If they say stop, stop...if they say not so deep, then not so deep, if they yell deeper or harder, stop if you hear 'ow' lol, etc.

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

Actually I am 7.5" bpel, but my nbpel is only 6.5". I want 7.5" nbpel.

+1, although slightly longer. I actually find it a weird size, since I don't really know what I am, if asked, or how it is perceived by the receiving end. On one hand, I'm essentially almost 8" long BPEL, but with my fat pad I'm 6.75" to almost 7", so that's all that can be seen. Really need to gain 0.5" or more...and lose 0.5" of fat pad :P lol

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

In other words, the closer to average you are, you don't have to be as careful during sex. If you are larger, then you really need to listen to your partner and put them above yourself -- If they say stop, stop...if they say not so deep, then not so deep, if they yell deeper or harder, stop if you hear 'ow' lol, etc.

Yes! This is exactly it. Both Main FWB and New FWB are fairly rough, and like going at it fairly hard and with a lot of force. Which is great for me, because that's exactly how I like it too. But I know from experience that I wouldn't be able to take that if their dicks were too much longer than they are. Just regular, not overly aggressive sex with the biggest guy had me physically moving away from him so that he couldn't get in as deep once I lost weight. So really hard fucking with anyone that was too much longer than what these two are would just not be comfortable, and with someone that was significantly longer it would be hell.

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

Forgive me if I'm out of the line for asking, but qandisa would you be attracted to a guy who was all the mind/character qualities you wanted in a man, but he was very fit and in shape and had a noticeably small flaccid that couldnt be overlooked if y'all went to the beach, pool, jet skiing, or to the gym and his nub popped out through the gym shorts? Would you still like or love him? Lol kinda curious

[SuperDD Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SuperDD]

Hi Q, Glad you are back. I like reading your posts.

I never ask these type of questions here but figure what the hell, I will today.

I full get your points about fucking and believe you, but I have wondered (since I watch porn probably), when you are with an average hung guy vs a long one, how does visual stimulation compare, and what about stuff like sucking his cock and pumping it with your hand and the same time etc. I guess in other words, all the stuff around actually fucking.

I'm only slightly above avg length & quite thick and dominant in bed and have never felt like I lacked in the size area, but admit I find the perspectives fascinating.

Thank you ;-)