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[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

Yes! This is exactly it. Both Main FWB and New FWB are fairly rough, and like going at it fairly hard and with a lot of force. Which is great for me, because that's exactly how I like it too. But I know from experience that I wouldn't be able to take that if their dicks were too much longer than they are. Just regular, not overly aggressive sex with the biggest guy had me physically moving away from him so that he couldn't get in as deep once I lost weight. So really hard fucking with anyone that was too much longer than what these two are would just not be comfortable, and with someone that was significantly longer it would be hell.

See that is the one thing that worries me about length and PE. For me at least, 90% of what I want from sex is to leave the girl shaking, vs trying to get off myself. Since this is the case, I'll adapt my style to fit the girl depending on how she likes it. Although you can be careful how much goes in...when they like it hard, that can be...problematic at times depending on just how deep she is. I know talking to one female friend who is into BDSM and rougher sex, that she had (what she claimed to be) 9" and she'd never do it again. Since she never actually measured, I'm guessing the size might have been closer to 8" or less.

That said, I think you can buy 'spacers' to help control depth when really going at it...so if I hit my length goals I'll maybe have to look into that. Also kind of sad to say, but since starting PE a year ago I've seen no action...so I really don't know how problematic my new length already could be (7.75" BPEL or slightly more now).

[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

That's why I'm keeping my goals 6.5-7". I want to be able to be rough (for my own pleasure too). If she wants it bigger or deeper I'll gladly use toys :/


But at the end of the day, you cannot please everyone. There would be some girls who'd much prefer the slower deeper sex than the rougher sex as there are the opposite. ONce you've made your goal, you know what you're getting into.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Forgive me if I'm out of the line for asking, but qandisa would you be attracted to a guy who was all the mind/character qualities you wanted in a man, but he was very fit and in shape and had a noticeably small flaccid that couldnt be overlooked if y'all went to the beach, pool, jet skiing, or to the gym and his nub popped out through the gym shorts? Would you still like or love him? Lol kinda curious

I'm not really sure how it would even be an issue to be honest. Although I guess that depends on what you mean by "popped out" - if you mean is noticeable when wearing then... so? Not a big deal. If you mean actually physically openly exposed then that's a totally different issue that has nothing to do with size.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

I full get your points about fucking and believe you, but I have wondered (since I watch porn probably), when you are with an average hung guy vs a long one, how does visual stimulation compare, and what about stuff like sucking his cock and pumping it with your hand and the same time etc. I guess in other words, all the stuff around actually fucking.

For me visual stimulation doesn't have a whole lot to do with length or girth. I look more at overall shape, head shape/size, veining (a little bit but not too much) etc.

I don't tend to do a whole lot of sucking combined with hand action actually, only if that's something that my partner particularly responds to. But I'm good with deepthroating and don't generally have a problem going all the way down so don't really have a need to use my hands to stimulate the lower parts.

The absolute only time I've had an issue with Main FWB's size is with titfucking, and that's due to a combination of his size and the size of my breasts. He's very into titfucking, and very into blowjobs, and I keep thinking that he'd probably really like it if I was able to combine the two together at once but that's just not possible. His cock kind of gets swallowed up between them and there's just not enough that's exposed to be able to suck it. This is only an issue because it's something I'd like to do to please him.

Not sure if that answers your questions or not.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

As an aside late in the conversation, welcome back Q, missed you. Gonna have to spend alittle more time at the Gym again.

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

Yes that answers my question.
I cant shake the feeling that size secretly does matter to all or most women, at least in texas hahah apparently everything is bigger here but i prove that saying wrong x)

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

That's why I'm keeping my goals 6.5-7". I want to be able to be rough (for my own pleasure too). If she wants it bigger or deeper I'll gladly use toys :/

Or use something to limit the problem lol

What you need is a penis limiter. (Ha the lady answers the question)

There are three kinds of products you can easily use as a penis limiters.

The first is a basic penis ring. You can put a penis ring on at the base of the penis and then experiment with your partner to find a comfortable depth. Once you’ve got it, place the ring at that point and use it as a visual guide to tell you when to penetrate no further.

The second is a kind of product sold as jelly rings that are made to go over the opening of a penis pump (tension rings or extender pieces). Sometimes called “donuts” these rings are several inches thick and can be rolled down the base of the penis and cover part of the shaft, preventing you from penetrating using the entire length of your penis.

Finally, there are some men’s penis sleeves, which can be put over the penis and then cut down to size. These work the same as the “donuts” but have the benefit of being as long as you need them to be.

Hope this helps!

I can PM some links if you need them.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...tml#post621127

End of the day, I figure a hand could work as well...but that might cause issues with positions. Definitely not interested in reverse-PE though. lol

[burtybasset Retired Moderator Member of the Month May 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close burtybasset]

Hey Q, sorry you have been having a rough time, but glad you are okay!

[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

Or use something to limit the problem lol



https://www.pegym.com/forums/penis-e...tml#post621127

End of the day, I figure a hand could work as well...but that might cause issues with positions. Definitely not interested in reverse-PE though. lol

I'm aware of those lol....

Another way is to keep the girls feet on you, or use a position where her butt gets in the way and cuts penetration depth or a mentrual cup/sponge to soften the cervix blow...

Still, that's my goal. I get turned on when my balls touch her but, or when her clit touhches my pelvis. It's more for me.

[INS Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close INS]

Hey Q, sorry you have been having a rough time, but glad you are okay!

Good Guy Burtybasset. Actually cares about Qandisa and not just all about the dick. :P

[Imthatguy...youknow Member Find all posts View Profile Close Imthatguy...youknow]

Thanks for that. Ive gotten that sentiment and I see others echo their lovers opinions on PE. It usually involves supporting them nit because of the bigger size but because it boosts our confidence. What we invest in we value so if we are investing in our sexual health and the desire to better attend to our women's needs, that exudes.

In fact when I took a week off, my wife could tell not by any size difference but because of my confidence. She noticed better confidence when I PE and that translates to better sex. Thank you for confirming such sentiment.

[SergTheBurg Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SergTheBurg]

I see that now, nothing amongst humans matter except mind and income

[Gyrta Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gyrta]

Q may I ask yo if you orgasm easily from PIV?
I think that there may be a size preference in women who cum easier from PIV, I think that there was a study who showed that women who orgasms easy tend to prefer larger size. On the other size, PIV-orgasmic women are a real minority.

[SuperDD Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close SuperDD]

Gyrta, from what I have read on how a vagina is made a thick one pulls on the nerves that run from the clit down into the vagina helping women orgasm from PIV. I've been lucky enough to be with women who get off that way.

Curious what her answer is though.

[Hater Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hater]

Yes I'm lucky I got one too, only takes 2-6 min continues penetration on top.

Wonder what happens if my penis is 1-2" longer, or she loses weight.

Cause when I go bone-pressed her eyes roll back even more.