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[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

I find it funny how people here refuse to accept that some girls don't really care for a huge one. Some do, some don't...just like how some guys like smaller girls, and other's like larger, etc, etc. Case in point, we have Psinstructor and Qandisa here who have different likes and views on the size issue.

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

I had a friend who was definitely a size queen. I don't know if she really *needed* to have a guy with a larger dick or if for whatever reason she just thought it made it sound like she was worldly and special - believe it or not yes there are women who think that by saying no they need a bigger one it makes them seem more discriminating and attractive. Like people who say oh no I could never eat THAT, I only eat premium organic blah blah blah.

But for whatever reason yes there are *some* women who are like that. Just like there are *some* men who won't date women with small breasts and insist that they have to be at least a certain size. Is it the majority of men? No. Is it enough to give some women a complex and think that their breasts aren't large enough? Certainly. Especially with all the media hype and attention paid to plastic surgery etc. So it's understandable that some guys get all turned around and start thinking that penis size is hugely important.

But really, it's not nearly as important to women as it is to guys. We don't use it as a measure of your worth.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

You really need to stop overanalyzing things. Seriously.

Having a bigger dick is not going to make someone a better lover. If there are 2 guys whose skill level is the same and one has a bigger dick, he's not necessarily going to be the better or preferential lover. If you took those 2 really bad lovers of mine with the big dicks and made them into great lovers then chances are they're still not going to be better than the guy I just spent the weekend with that had the average sized dick.

Really, stop focusing so much on dick size. Women really don't care as much as you guys seem to think we do. Unless it's so small that we can't feel it all, or so large that it hurts, the size makes almost no difference when it comes to how good a lover you are. When thinking about things like what goes into making a great lover you can't just assign equal weights of importance to all factors and then say well if we increase X then it's going to make a difference. Dick size is probably the least important factor.

I really don't know how to put it any other way. PENIS SIZE IS NOT THAT IMPORTANT. If you want me to assign weights and values to the importance of various factors then passion, intensity, skill, attentiveness, creativity etc are all probably at least 20x more important than penis size. So trying to break it down to an equation where "well but what if penis size was X" is meaningless.

So what's an average sized dick Q?....

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

So what's an average sized dick Q?....

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[jazz zebra Member Find all posts View Profile Close jazz zebra]

So what's an average sized dick Q?....

yeah thats what i wanting to ask. no use she saying average is better, when average to her is actually a 7'' dick. hope that dont come accross as rude or anything.

[zutsu401 Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close zutsu401]

6 maybe...

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Average being anywhere in the 5.5"-6" range.


ETA: Geez guys, give me some credit. I'm not talking MY average, I'm talking more or less statistical average. It wouldn't do any good for me to use a comparison measurement that no one other than me knows. Geez.

[jazz zebra Member Find all posts View Profile Close jazz zebra]

so in your experince, is that the true average for sexually active men? 5.5-6''? or bigger.

[Hater Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Hater]

Average being anywhere in the 8"-9" range.


ETA: Geez guys, give me some credit. I'm not talking MY average, I'm talking more or less statistical average. It wouldn't do any good for me to use a comparison measurement that no one other than me knows. Geez.

[Party Senior Member Member of the Month August 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Party]

Average being anywhere in the 5.5"-6" range.


ETA: Geez guys, give me some credit. I'm not talking MY average, I'm talking more or less statistical average. It wouldn't do any good for me to use a comparison measurement that no one other than me knows. Geez.

is that bone pressed or usable lenght? LOL. What about thickness.

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

Personally I wish more girls would comment on size and how many hands they can get on it. I know hand size varies, but I have heard at least a few times that a '2 hander' is considered 'big', but I just can't see that given most girls have hands 3" or less across.

To me, 'big' wouldn't really start until 3 hands or 3+ hands, but that's the way we guys think (and also how big some of the huge guys seem to be in porn). That point aside, I just can't see how a 2 hander is anything but average to maybe high average...but then the only penis I've ever put my hands on (and ever want to) is my own. lol

[PatheticMedic Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close PatheticMedic]

Here's my take on this:

People like different kinds of sex, so a woman who likes rough sex like Q, would want a guy who is average so they can do more with maximum comfort and pleasure. Sure, there are women who like a "huge" guy and wouldn't want a guy who is average...but the same can be said for men. Some guys don't like women with flat butts or flat chests- it's all relative to your personal preference.

Side note to this, we are about the only country that emphasizes penis size as greatly as we do. Take China for example; notoriously small penis size, yet their women look for a commitment and a more family oriented man. It is also a culturally relative issue!

[PurpleOnes Senior Member Member of the Month June 2014PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close PurpleOnes]

Personally I wish more girls would comment on size and how many hands they can get on it. I know hand size varies, but I have heard at least a few times that a '2 hander' is considered 'big', but I just can't see that given most girls have hands 3" or less across.

To me, 'big' wouldn't really start until 3 hands or 3+ hands, but that's the way we guys think (and also how big some of the huge guys seem to be in porn). That point aside, I just can't see how a 2 hander is anything but average to maybe high average...but then the only penis I've ever put my hands on (and ever want to) is my own. lol

2 hander is 8 inches or so.

3 hander is like close to 9 or past 9 inches. I think most women consider 9 inches to be huge not big.

[Gyrta Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Gyrta]

2 hander is 8 inches or so.

3 hander is like close to 9 or past 9 inches. I think most women consider 9 inches to be huge not big.

Your math doesn't make any sense.
And average female hand width is 2.9" inches, so a two hander is a 6" npbel.

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

This dick size thing is so interesting. Ive been about 6x5nbpel and never, ever, in the 50 plus partners had a single negative comment or complaint that I was too small. Ive had quite a few one night stands so I cant really say all of them 100% satisfied. But just about every woman Ive slept with I could always sleep with them again. So I guess I just find it surprising that so many people know "size queens" because Ive never met a single one. Sure, some may prefer if my dick was bigger, but never would they not fuck because I was average. I really put all the effort on pleasing the woman. Thats where I get my enjoyment. Hearing a woman howl having orgasm is priceless. I didnt make every girl orgasm since I wont eat pussy of a girl I bring home from a bar, but I know she still enjoyed it. I guess what Im saying is that I think most guys think more women are size queens than really are. Unless I am either really good in bed, (which I am. Lol), or the samples Ive had just didn't care. (Which I think is also the case.) Ive been with women from all over the country and my average dick always seems to satisfy, or maybe its the man behind the dick that satisfies.