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[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Personally I wish more girls would comment on size and how many hands they can get on it.

I don't like measuring anything that way. I just don't like using units of measurement that vary.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

We really are not listening very well. Size isn't even the most important thing our extremely patient hostess has brought to the table. I always considered my desire to perform cunnilingus was the key to being a better/good lover. Now here I find out some ladies don't even really enjoy it. Some dislike it, and some tolerate it. So size isn't key, having a signature move isn't key, all the potential things we stress over are not the keys to being a good lover. So what makes a good lover?
That appears to me to be the most important consideration here. It seems to me that we can't even break that down to a quantifiable answer. The reason is that being a good lover is subjective to the person/persons involved in the loving. If we won't listen to this lovely lady, and the other lovely ladies, let alone each other, how the hell are we ever going to be good lovers? We need to listen to our partners, and our peer to peer advisers.
I think this may be the most important part of this conversation and every other discussion about size or quality of a lover. Please try to listen more, and accept some of the answers. Then understand that each of us is giving our experience. Try to give each person props for their viewpoint.
Also if you are being told your dick is too small by a woman consider if she is saying that to you after you submitted an unsolicited dick picture. If you are submitting unsolicited dick pictures KNOCK IT OFF. If I was a woman and got an unsolicited dick picture I would either say something extremely negative about your penis, or my new favorite is for the woman to send a dick picture back to you showing hers is bigger than yours.
DON'T SEND UNSOLICITED DICK PICTURES EVER AGAIN. You are ruining males reputations every where. Love yourselves enough to be comfortable sharing your self with others. Love those of us that share ourselves with you enough to quit arguing our experiences.

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

I don't like measuring anything that way. I just don't like using units of measurement that vary.

True...although arguably most girls wouldn't have anything to directly compare it to, but would know how many hands fit on it when giving a handjob or blowjob. They'd also know if they have large hands or small hands as well, and could even measure their hands if they really wanted to be more accurate.

As for female hand size I did find this, and will say that I don't really know any girls with hands over 3", since that's what mine are (small for a guy, but easy to tell if they are bigger or smaller). I also know a few girls who fit in the "S" category who have hands at or just around 2" across...most are very petite/small-boned, and are in the 4'11"-5'2" and 90-110lb range.

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I've also read/heard a number of times people refer to someone being a '2 hander' and in some porn videos the girl goes on about being able to get 3 or 4 hands on it...which is why it made me wonder. Using my own 3" hands I'm already around 2 and a half, so the hope is to one day hit 3 or slightly more through PE (even if that means bringing in the heavy equipment vs a lawn mower, Psinstructor...lol)

[Phoenix7672 Senior Member Member of the Month Oct 2015 Find all posts View Profile Close Phoenix7672]

I am happily satisfied with one and a half to two hands. I can get all the satisfaction I need with this and it's the right size for deepthroating too. You guys that want 3+ hands are like a man who likes bringing a Caterpillar into the back yard to replace the job done by a perfectly good garden tractor.

Given your husband's size, I would have figured you for wanting a lot more (wanting, not needing, per say).

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

We really are not listening very well. Size isn't even the most important thing our extremely patient hostess has brought to the table.

Here, here on the extremely patient hostess - Quanisa, you have been more than kind and generous with your information. On behalf or all other men not pestering you with petty crap about size, I commend you for sharing your perspective and insight. Don't let these knuckleheads leave a bad taste. The rest of us really value your input.

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

Yes we do!!!

[dmizzle Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close dmizzle]

Idk, I can stack both my hands on my shaft and still have room for the whole glans to be visible. It's going to be different for everyone.

I'm trying to go with standard measurements here so BPEL. As for girth I'm actually bad at estimating accurate numbers for that. I know that there's a pretty big range of what looks "average" to me.

I'm 6.5" nbpel and 7.5" bpel. I do not ever remember a woman getting two hands on my dick. It looks the same as when I have my hand on my dick, and my hands are rather small. I cannot picture two full hands on the dick at under 8" nbpel. But I guess I'll have to try.

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Dick, dick, dick, size. Dick, dick, dick, penis. Dick, dick, dick, small. Dick, dick, dick, is it big enough. Dick, dick, dick, what do girls think. Dick, dick, dick, I'm and a$$.

Is the horse dead yet? I think we have beaten it enough.

[Addiction Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Addiction]

Oh here's a question that's much different for you, not about dick size. What is your take on older women being interested in younger guys? 35+ year old women, with 25 year old and younger guys. Is that typically an attractive thing for women?

[closed224 Senior Member Member of the Month Dec 2014, Feb 2017 Find all posts View Profile Close closed224]

OK, back to my huge hands?

[akaTrex Senior Member Member of the Month Jan 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close akaTrex]

Here, here on the extremely patient hostess - Quanisa, you have been more than kind and generous with your information. On behalf or all other men not pestering you with petty crap about size, I commend you for sharing your perspective and insight. Don't let these knuckleheads leave a bad taste. The rest of us really value your input.

Well Said ZZ-Man!!!


Qandisa, personally I value your wisdom and candor. Please keep it coming.


Many of the youth of the PE Gym cannot accept what You and I and many other Experienced (nicer word than Older) members bring with YEARS of experience to the discussion.


God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
(American theologian Reinhold Niebuhr)

[TheZZMan Moderator Member of the Month Sept 2018PEGym Hero Find all posts View Profile Close TheZZMan]

Well Said ZZ-Man!!!


Qandisa, personally I value your wisdom and candor. Please keep it coming.


Many of the youth of the PE Gym cannot accept what You and I and many other Experienced (nicer word than Older) members bring with YEARS of experience to the discussion.


God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
(American theologian Reinhold Niebuhr)

aka, I'd like you twice, but that option seems to not be available. I also second the prayer for strength!

[Qandisa Senior Member Member of the Month March 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Qandisa]

Oh here's a question that's much different for you, not about dick size. What is your take on older women being interested in younger guys? 35+ year old women, with 25 year old and younger guys. Is that typically an attractive thing for women?

Well let me put it this way: I've got several FWB, most of them I see once every 5 or 6 weeks. One or two of them I get to see more frequently I'm 46. MainFWB is 38 - he's the different one of the group. NewFWB is 29. Most of the others are 25.

[Addiction Senior Member Find all posts View Profile Close Addiction]

Well let me put it this way: I've got several FWB, most of them I see once every 5 or 6 weeks. One or two of them I get to see more frequently I'm 46. MainFWB is 38 - he's the different one of the group. NewFWB is 29. Most of the others are 25.

46? You are a perfect age . When I was 23, I was dating this woman who was 54. I totally fucked it up though, I thought she kept wanting more but she just wanted to not be lonely. I was just curious of how often that type of ordeal happens, I've always found older woman more appealing. PS go Canada!

[Sequoia Tree Senior Member Member of the Month July 2016 Find all posts View Profile Close Sequoia Tree]

Also if you are being told your dick is too small by a woman consider if she is saying that to you after you submitted an unsolicited dick picture. If you are submitting unsolicited dick pictures KNOCK IT OFF. If I was a woman and got an unsolicited dick picture I would either say something extremely negative about your penis, or my new favorite is for the woman to send a dick picture back to you showing hers is bigger than yours.
DON'T SEND UNSOLICITED DICK PICTURES EVER AGAIN. You are ruining males reputations every where.

Going off on a bit of a tangent here, but I totally agree. I don't understand how this embarrassing boorish behavior became so prevalent. I'm pretty darn sure that women in general don't like looking at dicks as much as we like looking at boobs and behinds. And certainly not when they're unsolicited.

I have never sent a dick pic, unsolicited or otherwise, to anyone. Heck, even if my girlfriend were feeling a bit horny and asked for one, I'd probably just send her a pic of me sporting a bulge in some well-fitting pants with abs visible, because I love building anticipation to the point where she just wants to tear your clothes off, spring into your arms, wrap her legs around you, and shove her tongue down your throat . Or I'd do something silly, like be naked, with a guitar hanging in front of my crotch, and caption the photo, "25 rock (maple) hard inches of fully-functional wood".

I'm not sure anyone here knows enough about guitar building to get the maple joke.