Member of the Month March 2016
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Yeah I know it's been a while, sorry. Had a lot of personal stuff to deal with, death of a close relative, and other things that kept me pretty busy and pretty antisocial for a while. But I'm here
So I'm posting this in the Women's Perspective forum because I wanted to share a few things and some of them are most relevant to this forum. If you're new here (or just don't like me) then you're not going to care about some of them but hey that's okay.
When last I was on I had one or two casual FWBs and one main FWB, and things were a bit rocky with the main FWB. We did end up on a bit of a hiatus for about 2 months, during which I had no communication with him at all due to his particular situation. Our arrangement has resumed and things are going just fine there. I still don't get to see him as often as I'd like, but I still consider him my main FWB because he's the one that I've enjoyed being with the most.
I did however very recently acquire a new FWB. We've had a total of one physical encounter together and I have to say that just from that I think he's going to be a very close 2nd to main FWB. And when I'm putting those "rankings" on them I'm not saying of the FWBs I have right now, or have had recently, I mean in total.
And now the reason that all that is relevant to this forum:
Main FWB is average (or slightly below) in length, although he is above average in girth. New FWB is pretty much average in both. In fact when we were still just chatting he warned me that he was "only maybe 6" and that he knew that women were looking for guys that were 8" and he felt like he was inadequate because of that. Both of these men are amongst the best lovers that I have ever had, and for those that remember me from when I was around before you'll recall that I've had quite a few (*cough* understatement *cough*). I've also been with several guys that were quite well endowed and I can honestly say that no, bigger dicks don't mean that the sex is going to be better.
For both of these guys it's the men themselves that play the biggest part in being a turn on. A jerk with a big dick is still a jerk and still not someone I want to fuck. A guy that I've got real chemistry with that has an average dick is hands-down going to be a better lover than any jerk with a big dick, any day. It's not about the size of the dick. It's about the personal interaction and the chemistry and the understanding between the people involved. I don't care if it's a serious relationship or something casual or a one night stand, you can't forget that the brain is the biggest sexual organ, and the biggest erogenous zone that we have. If you can't make that connection and have that chemistry and rapport then you might as well just be using sex toys. I've known main FWB for 18+ months now, we know what each other likes and what will engage and arouse. I've known new FWB for 2 weeks, we've been together once and he was already so tuned in to what I like that it was incredible.
And again - both these guys are about average in length. One is thicker than average, the other is absolutely average. And they're fantastic.
Do women need a big cock to have enjoy sex? No. Are we going to enjoy sex more with a big cock? Probably not. I was going to say "hell no" but let me put it this way - if increasing your size is going to make you more comfortable with yourself then THAT is what's going to make the difference. Not the size.
Yeah I know it's been a while, sorry. Had a lot of personal stuff to deal with, death of a close relative, and other things that kept me pretty busy and pretty antisocial for a while. But I'm here
So I'm posting this in the Women's Perspective forum because I wanted to share a few things and some of them are most relevant to this forum. If you're new here (or just don't like me) then you're not going to care about some of them but hey that's okay.
When last I was on I had one or two casual FWBs and one main FWB, and things were a bit rocky with the main FWB. We did end up on a bit of a hiatus for about 2 months, during which I had no communication with him at all due to his particular situation. Our arrangement has resumed and things are going just fine there. I still don't get to see him as often as I'd like, but I still consider him my main FWB because he's the one that I've enjoyed being with the most.
I did however very recently acquire a new FWB. We've had a total of one physical encounter together and I have to say that just from that I think he's going to be a very close 2nd to main FWB. And when I'm putting those "rankings" on them I'm not saying of the FWBs I have right now, or have had recently, I mean in total.
And now the reason that all that is relevant to this forum:
Main FWB is average (or slightly below) in length, although he is above average in girth. New FWB is pretty much average in both. In fact when we were still just chatting he warned me that he was "only maybe 6" and that he knew that women were looking for guys that were 8" and he felt like he was inadequate because of that. Both of these men are amongst the best lovers that I have ever had, and for those that remember me from when I was around before you'll recall that I've had quite a few (*cough* understatement *cough*). I've also been with several guys that were quite well endowed and I can honestly say that no, bigger dicks don't mean that the sex is going to be better.
For both of these guys it's the men themselves that play the biggest part in being a turn on. A jerk with a big dick is still a jerk and still not someone I want to fuck. A guy that I've got real chemistry with that has an average dick is hands-down going to be a better lover than any jerk with a big dick, any day. It's not about the size of the dick. It's about the personal interaction and the chemistry and the understanding between the people involved. I don't care if it's a serious relationship or something casual or a one night stand, you can't forget that the brain is the biggest sexual organ, and the biggest erogenous zone that we have. If you can't make that connection and have that chemistry and rapport then you might as well just be using sex toys. I've known main FWB for 18+ months now, we know what each other likes and what will engage and arouse. I've known new FWB for 2 weeks, we've been together once and he was already so tuned in to what I like that it was incredible.
And again - both these guys are about average in length. One is thicker than average, the other is absolutely average. And they're fantastic.
Do women need a big cock to have enjoy sex? No. Are we going to enjoy sex more with a big cock? Probably not. I was going to say "hell no" but let me put it this way - if increasing your size is going to make you more comfortable with yourself then THAT is what's going to make the difference. Not the size.
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