Incogneeetoe's "Progress" thread

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Part II

I went home and related the story to my as funny anecdote from class. My wife says "Yes! I have been telling you for years!" She points out that she often will touch my flaccid in my pants to check if I am hard, just because it looks so big. She says compared to other men, my flaccid looks like I have an erection. I thought she was just teasing me.

She really thought it was very funny and spent the next day making jokes and comments about my being hung. Essentially she treated it as a validation as she had been telling me for years that I have an obvious bulge.

All of a sudden, all of these seemingly random interactions came together in my mind as I realized these people have been noticing my crotch. It has come up over and over through the years. Taxi drivers telling me I should not try to sleep with Korean women, comparing their forearm to the pinky. Guys talking over beers about how I am twice as big as them, guys who have never seen me naked. Men, whom I am relatively close to, looking at my penis while we pee and nodding in approval. Old men in the sauna telling me to cover up. Middle school boys in class talking about how big I am. College girls absentmindedly looking at my crotch area. Mothers commenting to my wife, etc.

I realize that people have been noticing my "bulge" for a while now. Years even. I always blew off comments about my size as just silliness, as since I have lived in Korea I have dealt with stereotypes. People often hold a stereotype of the black penis. Here in Korea they also have this stereotype about white guys being much bigger than Koreans. I always passed it off as just that, a stereotype.

I feel a little, no, very embarrassed. Could it be these students all think I am a "horn dog" packing wood in front of class? How many people have been staring at my penis? Do students really talk about teachers that way? About me that way?

My wife says "Now you understand what it is like to be a women, with men always looking at you and commenting on your looks."

I understood the objectification of women in abstract, but now I can see how it feels.

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Lol great story .

Umm you could change the way you dress. Nah don't. Get the Pegym logo pants instead.

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Lol great story .

Umm you could change the way you dress. Nah don't. Get the Pegym logo pants instead.

My wife has been checking how I am dressed and "my package" each morning since... to make sure it is not too obvious . I figure I'll just get the logo and blurb tattooed on the shaft "PEGym: Sexual Improvement For Men"...should be enough room now .


I was feeling really weird about this the past two days. The first day I even had a hard time getting it up...of course the wife was all hot and bothered by the situation, but for the first time in a couple of years I had performance anxiety issues (proud to say I powered through and did my duty as a husband).

Then next day I skipped all my exercise. Just did not feel motivated to do any PE. Back on the routine today...

And all day at school I am watching peoples eyes to see if they are looking. And I swear to god...in this one class I have a student who looks familiar (it is a small campus). So I asked her if we had met, how do I know her. She says her friends all took my class before, so I had met her in the hallway, elevator, etc. And I'd swear as she said that she glanced at my crotch. I think I am getting paranoid.

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Had a really positive experience with my wife on Saturday evening.


I had been out with an old friend for a few drinks, and when I got home the wife jumped me. At first I expressed some concern about getting it up, as I had a few in me. But my training kicked in pretty quick and I was soon erect.


We went at it for a little bit in missionary, but she really wanted to be on top. She is really into cowgirl these days. She rode me to an orgasm, and we both relaxed a little, but did not stop.


We went through a few positions and she had two more orgasms. But we were not going at it intensely, as I was in my cups and she was a little tipsy we started to talk. Ever since that "hung" comment a few days ago she has become more interested in the state of my erection.


She wondered why I thought I couldn't get an erection today. So I said, again, just because of drinking. I then pointed out that it was not 100% hard, only about 80% at the start.


She said likes it when it is not too hard. She called it "Sausage penis". I pursued that thought. So my wife said she has noticed over the years that I have 3 kinds of erections. "Sausage penis", "Normal erection" and "It's going to hurt".

She said that usually it is just "Normal Erection", which I guess means fully erect but not raging hard. It will move a little bit, so cowgirl is possible, but better to use for missionary or jockey. Good for quick sex, but too long is uncomfortable.

Then there is "It's going to hurt", which she said is when I am really horny, more than 100%. Super hard, does not move at all. It looks really good, but sex is difficult. Cowgirl is not possible. Best to use jockey.

Finally is "Sausage penis". That is when I fist wake up or late at night when very tired. It is 80%. Hard, but can move. That is really good for cowgirl.

It was a really fun conversation, and the sex was great. Lasted about 30 minutes in all. The conversation had a few hiccups as she came, but we did not loose the train of thought.

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Had a really positive experience with my wife on Saturday evening.


I had been out with an old friend for a few drinks, and when I got home the wife jumped me. At first I expressed some concern about getting it up, as I had a few in me. But my training kicked in pretty quick and I was soon erect.


We went at it for a little bit in missionary, but she really wanted to be on top. She is really into cowgirl these days. She rode me to an orgasm, and we both relaxed a little, but did not stop.


We went through a few positions and she had two more orgasms. But we were not going at it intensely, as I was in my cups and she was a little tipsy we started to talk. Ever since that "hung" comment a few days ago she has become more interested in the state of my erection.


She wondered why I thought I couldn't get an erection today. So I said, again, just because of drinking. I then pointed out that it was not 100% hard, only about 80% at the start.


She said likes it when it is not too hard. She called it "Sausage penis". I pursued that thought. So my wife said she has noticed over the years that I have 3 kinds of erections. "Sausage penis", "Normal erection" and "It's going to hurt".

She said that usually it is just "Normal Erection", which I guess means fully erect but not raging hard. It will move a little bit, so cowgirl is possible, but better to use for missionary or jockey. Good for quick sex, but too long is uncomfortable.

Then there is "It's going to hurt", which she said is when I am really horny, more than 100%. Super hard, does not move at all. It looks really good, but sex is difficult. Cowgirl is not possible. Best to use jockey.

Finally is "Sausage penis". That is when I fist wake up or late at night when very tired. It is 80%. Hard, but can move. That is really good for cowgirl.

It was a really fun conversation, and the sex was great. Lasted about 30 minutes in all. The conversation had a few hiccups as she came, but we did not loose the train of thought.

Awesome!

The Erection Levels you two talked about remind me of the illustrations in the Penis Exercise book and they go by percentages.

100 Percent would be your "It's going to hurt."

75 Percent to 50 Pencent would be your "Sausage Penis"

80 Percent may be your "Normal Erection."

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Here has been my routine the last two weeks of August and the first week of September. I did daily PE work and PreE work as detailed below:

Morning Warm Up -> A minor change in this I when I do it. Used to do it after breakfast, now I do right when I get up.

• 60 1 handed squeezes (right hand then left)
• 30 two handed squeezes (alternating hands)
• 30 Pulls (same grip)
• 30 two handed squeezes (reverse grip, simultaneous)
• 30 pelvic thrusts (maintain grip)
• 6 dry jelqs (left hand)
• 40 helicopter twirls, left hand
• 6 dry jelqs (right hand)
• 5 direction stretch (Count of 30 each)
• 6 dry jelqs (left hand)
• Two handed grip shoulder raises (Count of 30 x 2)
• 12 dry jelqs (Right hand)
• 40 helicopter twirls, right hand

Afternoon Edging

• 60 1 handed squeezes (left hand then right)
• 40 two handed squeezes (alternating hands)
• 40 Pulls (same grip)
• 40 two handed squeezes (reverse grip, simultaneous)
• 40 pelvic thrusts (same grip)
• 10 dry jelqs (left hand)
• 50 helicopter twirls, left hand
• 10 dry jelqs (right hand)
• 2 mixed stretches (Count of 50 each,)
• 10 dry jelqs (left hand)
• 2 mixed stretchs (count of 50 each)
• 20 dry jelqs (Right hand)
• 50 helicopter twirls, right hand
• Jerk penis – 40/80 left /right palm up with curve/ against curve
• 12 squeezes (alternate hands) count of 10
• Jerk 80/40 left /right palm up against curve/ with curve till hard (~95%)
• Keep at as close to 10.0 EQ 10 mins
• Jelq > 20 palm down, 20 up, 30 palm down, 20 up (against curve), 30 palm down

Evening stretch

• 60 one handed squeezes
• 40 two handed squeezes (alternating hands)
• 40 Pulls (same grip)
• 40 two handed squeezes (reverse grip, simultaneous)
• 40 pelvic thrusts (maintain grip)
• 6 dry jelqs (left hand)
• 50 helicopter twirls, left hand
• 6 dry jelqs (right hand)
• 30 bicep curls
• 6 dry jelqs (left hand)
• 30 bicep curls
• 12 dry jelqs (Right hand)
• 50 helicopter twirls, right hand

- I am drinking ginger, ginseng and green tea daily. Garlic almost daily. Gingko intermittently.
- Morning wood is regular and hard.
- Erections for edging (and sex) have been excellent. Generally rock hard deep into base.

My wife’s newfound interest in my size continues. After sex the last time she used a measuring tape to check my size. Did not do it correctly: along the side and not bone pressed. She got a measure of 24 cms. She later went on the Korean portal site and looked for averages. Supposedly, according to the Korean military it is 12cms. She says to me "Don't tell anyone, you are just going to upset them"

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6 weeks of that maintenance routine.
Works well in terns of my time and general penile health.

- Morning wood has been quite good all in all. Wakes me up by times. Even to the point that I cannot lay asleep on my stomach, the wood stands out straight, so I have to be on my back.
- Erections are easy to get and always fully hard.
- flaccid hang is good and has been a newfound problem (but that is another thing...).
- No new measurements. Will wait til end of year I think.

This week is a big holiday in SK, so will take the week "off" from PE, so to speak. Plan to just work on edging with the wife.

Back into it first week of October. May make some adjustments. Need to get bundled stretches back in the mix.
I find I like doing a quick set when I first wake up (as the coffee brews), but for whatever reason I get too hard too easily at that time. Not getting in proper flaccid stretching. It feels good to be so erect so easily, but not helping towards that 9 inch goal.

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- No new measurements. Will wait til end of year I think.

Hey Bud,

I'm wondering why the long wait? Wouldn't measuring every two weeks be better? Because you can make mid-course adjustments if something is not working for you?

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Hey Bud,

I'm wondering why the long wait? Wouldn't measuring every two weeks be better? Because you can make mid-course adjustments if something is not working for you?

Zen and the art of PE.

I do not want to be chasing numbers. I do PE to improve myself in PreE and sexual performance. The size is not the goal, that is a benefit.

When I started out I was chasing those numbers and was often disappointed. I did as you said, readjusted and changes routines every few weeks. Then again. But once I stopped chasing those numbers and stuck to routines that gave me good PIs I gained consistently.

I am doing a healthy routine. I can feel it. I don't want to be so focused on that small gain. By focusing on health and PreE I'll get there.

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Great thread, sir.

I gotta ask what your newfound "problem" is from the bigger flaccid hang.

Any issues on her end as you approach 9"?

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Great thread, sir.

I gotta ask what your newfound "problem" is from the bigger flaccid hang.

Any issues on her end as you approach 9"?

I recently realized that I get a lot of stares. Students in class looking at my package. Other women I know have commented upon it. It is not a big problem, except in the classroom context I am a little worried about it.

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I recently realized that I get a lot of stares. Students in class looking at my package. Other women I know have commented upon it. It is not a big problem, except in the classroom context I am a little worried about it.

Gotcha, that makes sense in that context. Some really good underwear for the time at school?

Is it terrible I'm looking for the stares when I get bigger? I want the world to know that my wife is a lucky lady. Haha.

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It is not terrible. It is a little disconcerting.

I worry about the impression I am giving people. Especially students.

My wife always notices my bulge, and she will touch it or grab it. I thought she was being playful, but she says it is to check if I am hard. She says it looks so big she thinks I have an erection, but then feels it and finds it is just my flaccid. I worry that students think I am walking around with a boner while teaching.

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That would be rather concerning in your situation. Maybe looser fitting pants?

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That would be rather concerning in your situation. Maybe looser fitting pants?

If I go any looser I'll be in bell biv devoe or mc hammer territory.